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“The balance is off,” I said, swirling a French fry in ketchup. Lunch lasted for three hours and turned into coffee at a café a few blocks away, and then a lingering walk through the Manhattan streets as the sun warmed us on that bright fall day.

Now that I have this information, I can’t stop thinking of him. You’ve never gone on a date with him in all the years you’ve known him. He will not be available to go on a date for at least two years – and that is presuming that he does, in fact, separate from his wife, and immediately wants to start dating you – instead of taking a break from women or going on his local Tinder to see who’s out there. Even if he does have these equal feelings for you, you will then be dating a separated (not divorced) man who lives somewhere else, thereby setting you up for a long-distance relationship. Personally, I think keeping this barely flickering dream alive would be the WORST thing you could possibly do, and I wouldn’t want to enable such a choice. Try finding a local, unmarried man and you can actually be MARRIED in three years instead of first starting to date. I say, move on, try to forget him and meet someone else.

We weren’t in touch anymore, but a few months earlier I’d been devastated when I found out he’d recently gotten married. Never having had an affair with a married man, I did have a history of dating guys with varying degrees of unavailability and knew how painful it was. Sitting in the upscale restaurant waiting for him to arrive, I stared at the same line in the book I was reading over and over again, but the words were swimming in front of my eyes, and I couldn’t focus.

I had no desire to put myself in that situation again. When he walked in, the first thing I noticed as he reached to hug me was his wedding ring.

My most memorable correspondence came from an online man whose profile name was Tee Up4Us. I told her she was married to a pathological liar and consummate cheater and she should divorce him before he crushes her heart.

He emailed me telling me he had a successful career on Wall Street (a sweetener), he was divorced and he was in the process of moving to Middle Tennessee where I lived. And I told Tee Up4Us, “If you’re reading this you’re a lying, cheating scumbag.” If you’ve used a dating site even a little bit these fishy scenarios have happened to you: An online man emails you saying he is closing his dating site account but at the last minute he saw your profile, he was extremely attracted to you and he asks you to send him your email address so he can correspond with you.

Our other friends have mentioned many times that he is very unhappy in his marriage.

He has twin children who will be leaving for college in about two years, and he said that he believes he will initiate a divorce if things don’t change.

They conceal their true identity with a secret email address, a secondary cell phone, and if necessary a post office box.